Dear Fran,

my husband of two years seems to agree with me about everything, he has no negatives,(thats what he wants me to believe) but things come up missing within the home and I'll ask about it and he replys I dont know. I have to remind him its only two of us in the home. can you help me with this. I think he want verbally say what he feels but instead acts it out adversly towards me. I dont think I can contiune to play this kind of game. we are in our 50"s

Help Me!

Dear Help Me,

This is a well-known ailment suffered by men of all ages.  Unfortunately, you obtained your husband late in life and have not had the opportunity to properly train and socialize him.  Obviously, his previous owner did not properly groom him.  You just need to change the rules of the game and begin to have a little fun with it. 

Fran Slanders